Assume goodwill

There’s often doubt.

Giving someone the benefit of that doubt enables us to move forward, and that requires us to realize that our doubt might be unfounded.

Systems that assume goodwill create possibility, connection and utility far easier than those that don’t. Being invited to find a place in those systems is a privilege worth earning.

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